I can’t seem to avoid reminders about holding my tongue. I hope it’s because I’m so good at it.
“Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam, so drop the matter before a dispute breaks out” (Proverbs 17:14 NIV).
Before a dispute breaks out? That means to resist saying that one-more-thing that might cause a serious crack in a relationship, and even bring a rush of unstoppable destruction.
“Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent, and discerning if he holds his tongue” (verse 28).
This might be my favorite proverb of all time. I may behave foolishly, but I can appear wise if I’m careful with my words. I think being watchful of their effect is what helps me to be less destructive and more encouraging to others.
“A rebuke impresses a man of discernment more than a hundred lashes a fool” (verse 10).
Verse 10 speaks for itself, doesn’t it! I want to welcome the rebuke that helps me do better and I hope to be a woman of discernment. I’ve seen enough damage to motivate me to keep the dam in good repair.
by Kathy Sheldon Davis
It takes constant monitoring, doesn’t it!
Hi Kathy, love this on the tongue…I’ve yet to be a perfect man (woman)