Teach the Older Women – Titus 2:3

One reason I like this verse is because it supports the idea of being lifelong learners as we grow in faith. The writer, an older leader, is instructing a younger leader to teach older women to teach younger ones how to behave as followers of Jesus. He says,

“Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good.” Titus 2:3 NIV

My children agree I qualify as an older woman. I’m also a woman who needs to be taught. I want to live reverently (the dictionary says reverence means showing respect) and learn better how to do that, but convincing me to avoid addiction to wine would be a waste of a teacher’s effort. I’ve never had an interest in drinking alcohol to excess.

As for suggesting changing how I talk about others – that’s another matter.

Would you have difficulty teaching an older woman to watch her tongue? Would you be willing to try? Tricky business there. However, if we’re effective she might take over teaching that lesson herself.

I’d like to think this older woman would.

by Kathy Sheldon Davis

The Biggest Best Thing – Proverbs 4:7

“Wisdom is supreme; therefore get wisdom.  Though it cost all you have, get understanding” Proverbs 4:7 (NIV).

Like standing in a racing wagon with my bonnet blown back, feet braced, pulling the reins and yelling “Whoa,” it’s my job to direct my anxious thoughts.  The distractions of life are fierce for me this time of year, and I often feel obliged to race after every good work that enters my head for my family, my community, my world.  But wisdom keeps my holiday stress under control and my horses where they belong.

The most important thing is wisdom, with the emphasis on the word thing; more important than any thing, than every thing. I know following Jesus, working hard, loving my neighbor, is what I am called to do. Other than these values, what thing should I acquire? Wisdom.

If you’d like to follow me in my pursuit of wisdom, I’m going to post my daily proverb and comment, and I’d love to hear from you, either here or on Facebook.  Let’s start January 1 with Proverbs chapter 1.  I’ll post a favorite or two from that chapter, then on January 2 I’ll do the same with chapter 2.

Wisdom says, “I love those who love me, and those who seek me find me” Proverbs 8:17 (NIV).

by Kathy Sheldon Davis

Why I Love my Critique Group

My friends cluster around me at the coffee shop every Thursday morning.  They lean their heads in close and wait for me to say something, anything, as though I’m harboring golden nuggets of insight for their lives (or hiding chocolate in my pocket).  A sweet component is that we’ve circulated in the same community for many years, and have a long history of shared relationships and memories.

OCW summer conf. board lunch 6-2015

They’re wonderful listeners, and that’s what makes them valuable critiquers. They kindly sharpen me, humbly correct me, and thoroughly encourage me.  With them my writing has improved and my goals are being reached.  It’s just plain fun to experience their gentle admonitions and raucous exultations.

It’s been more than a month since my last blog post.  I’ve been taxed with working on my novel and my home commitments – and honestly, I’ve allowed Facebook to pull me away.  I was prepared to announce today that I’m not going to work on my novel for the month of December, and call it something clever like NoWriNoMoFoNow.  (Instead of NaNoWriMo which is National Novel Writing Month). But I don’t think that’ll stick.  My friends are waiting to see what’s in my pocket.

by Kathy Sheldon Davis

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